Look, listen, probe, ask some hard questions, get out of that very comfortable mode of knowing, walk into curiosity mode, ask more questions, have a little dignity, treat the person you're talking to with rapport.
Oddly enough, those questions have the same general answer: emergence, or the spontaneous creation of sophisticated behaviors and functions from large groups of simple elements.
よく見聞きし 探り 難しい質問を投げてみましょう ゆったりとくつろいだ雰囲気から 興味を惹かれた感じでもっと質問をしてみましょう 尊厳を忘れずに 親密な間柄だと感じさせるようにしながらです 